I was completely shocked when two of our gay friends showed up for a dinner party with their twins in tow. I hadn’t mentioned kids in the invitation and the table was set for eight–four adult couples. I did the best I could, but I don’t think I hid my irritation very well, especially when the twins complained about the caper sauce I served on the fish. Suggestions for the future?
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