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How do you address an invitation to a gay or lesbian couple?
Not only do my parents continue to spell my partner’s name wrong (hello, it’s Ann not Anne!) after 15 years, but more often than not they don’t even write her name on the envelope. That really irks me, and it hurts her because it seems like she’s invisible to them. What’s the right way to address a gay couple when writing to them?

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